How to Host a Proper High Tea

How to Host a Proper High Tea

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Technically, high tea in the U.K. includes cooked meats and salad. But in the U.S., it has become synonymous with an afternoon of sweet treats and delicate sandwiches.

Step 1: Invite your guests
Invite guests to come by between 3 and 5 p.m. Afternoon tea is meant to tide people over from lunch to dinner.

Step 2: Set a proper table
Put out a cloth tablecloth, cloth napkins, and your best utensils. Provide each guest with a teacup and saucer, and a small plate. Give each guest two spoons: one for their tea and one for their clotted cream and jam.

Step 3: Pick your tea
Offer a variety of loose-leaf teas; tea bags are a no-no. Either limit your selection to the number of teapots you have, or provide each guest with a tea infuser that allows them to steep tea in their own cups.

Step 4: Prepare your menu
Prepare a menu that includes small scones, miniature pastries, like petits fours, and finger sandwiches – egg or chicken salad, cucumber, watercress, and smoked salmon with cream cheese are all traditional fillings. Cut them into quarters, and remove the crusts.

Step 5: Serve food
Place the sweets and sandwiches on separate platters or tiered serving trays and allow guests to serve themselves with tongs. Place pots of jam and clotted cream on the table for the scones.

If you can’t find clotted cream in your market, substitute creme fraiche.

Step 6: Prepare your tea
Put the loose tea into the empty teapots. A good general rule is one teaspoon for every cup of water.

Step 7: Add the water
Just before the water boils, add it to the teapots. Cover and let steep for two to four minutes.

Stir the leaves lightly a couple of times while they’re brewing. The tea will brew more evenly this way.

Step 8: Serve the tea
Place a tea strainer across each teacup before pouring to catch the tea leaves. Offer guests sugar, lemon, or milk – but not cream.

Step 9: Relax
Sit back, relax, and linger over good conversation. High tea is meant to be savored.

Did You Know?
The tradition of afternoon tea was conceived in the 1800s by Anna Maria, the duchess of Bedford, who complained she got hungry between lunch and dinner.


  1. Kids at an afternoon tea with best china and nappery? Never. Maybe at a family high tea taken at the dinner table with ordinary dishes and cutlery and is more like a family evening meal. And are those actually tea bags? Never. Always loose tea.

  2. Afternoon tea: savories and sweets, served early in the day.  High Tea: meats, served closer to dinner. These are two very distinct traditions :)

  3. I would NEVER make tea by dunking a tea infuser into a nice china cup!! The star of tea time is the tea, and tea needs to be covered in boiling water – not dunked in semi-hot water in a metal ball. A huge no-no.

  4. @TheLolbot3000 In the US, hotels offer afternoon tea as a way to attract business. "High tea" sounds more sophisticated than "Afternoon tea". So it's a way of charging more money to the uninformed, social-climbers who want to impress equally uninformed friends, relatives and business associates.

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